ep 105: ADHD, Consistency, and The Slight Edge Philosophy

Working incredibly hard but seeing zero results? You’re not broken—you’re just missing the slight edge. Discover why ADHD brains struggle with long-term thinking and how tiny, consistent actions create massive transformation. If you’re caught in all-or-nothing cycles, chasing quick fixes, or feeling like success is always out of reach, this episode reveals the invisible process that changes everything.

What you’ll learn:

  • Why only 5% of people actually reach their goals (and how ADHD makes this harder)
  • The slight edge philosophy: how small actions compound over time into success
  • Why your ADHD brain craves novelty but needs boring consistency to thrive
  • How time blindness sabotages long-term progress and what to do instead
  • Steve Martin’s 40-year perspective that transformed his entire career trajectory
  • The neuroplasticity secret: why “you can’t teach an old dog new tricks” is a myth
  • How dopamine dysregulation affects ADHD motivation and reward processing
  • Why waiting for big breakthroughs keeps you stuck in frustration cycles
  • The invisible process that separates successful people from everyone else
  • How to trust progress when results aren’t immediately visible to your brain
  • Why emotional regulation determines whether you’ll stick with small changes
  • The compound effect of micro-habits on ADHD executive function over time

Tools and Strategies I Share:

  • The “one thing so small it feels silly” implementation strategy
  • Seven success habits from Jeff Olson’s framework (and how to pick just one)
  • Goal-setting system: dream it, write it, plan it, deadline it approach
  • External reminder systems that work with ADHD: Post-its, vision boards, widgets
  • Environmental design principles that support consistency over willpower
  • Recovery and rest as slight edge decisions for ADHD brains
  • Micro-step breakdown method for making any habit feel doable
  • Progress measurement shift: consistency tracking versus daily results obsession
  • The “slightly better than yesterday” daily assessment question
  • Scaffolding approach: reminders, cues, and accountability systems setup

“Every choice you make is either moving you toward success or toward failure. Time will eventually reveal them.” – Jeff Olson

From Invisible Actions to Unstoppable Results

Learn why the habits that create success are simple but not easy, and how your ADHD brain can finally work with the slight edge instead of against it. I share my personal fitness journey and exactly how I’m applying these principles in real-time, plus the one question that keeps me moving forward when I feel stuck.

Book Featured:

The Slight Edge by Jeff Olson – A game-changing philosophy that removes pressure to be instantly perfect and gives permission to start small, stay messy, and let time do the work.

Your Next Action Step:

Pick one micro-habit so small it feels almost ridiculous. Drink one more glass of water. Read two pages. Write one sentence about your dream. Then repeat tomorrow. That’s how the slight edge works—invisible at first, unstoppable over time.

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This episode is perfect for ADHD adults exhausted by quick-fix culture, professionals struggling with long-term goal achievement, and anyone ready to stop chasing intensity and start building consistency. The slight edge works whether you’re developing personal habits, professional skills, or life-changing routines—transforming invisible daily choices into unstoppable momentum.

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